Jul
11
Conscious Communication: The Antidote to Passive Aggressive Speech
I often attend leadership team meetings held by client companies at which I coach or teach Conscious Leadership. I recently noticed what I interpreted as a habit among the C-level team members at one client company.One person offered a very accretive idea for an upcoming customer event, and after he...
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Jul
11
Clean Agreements: The most efficient way to reduce hours of frustration and disappointment
Many of the executives and companies I work with find the Conscious Leadership concept of “clean agreements” to be one of the most transformative principles. The idea is that, as a matter of developing integrity and trust in your relationships, Conscious Leaders work to create and honor impeccable agreements. If you have...
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Jul
11
Choosing Unhappiness
Here’s something you may not know about me, probably because until now, I haven’t really wanted you to know; I hadn’t found it particularly flattering.Despite all the wonderful things that have happened in my life and all the wonderful people, I continually find myself back on the “feeling bad couch.”...
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Jul
11
Choosing Candor in Business and The Perils of Making Any Other Choice
It’s been a rough two weeks for me and my conviction around the availability of candor in business.You know how you can see a really scary horror movie and replay scary images for months after? Well, I’m having that kind of post-traumatic experience after reading two business books. Go figure.First...
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Jul
11
Choosing to See Our Personality Patterns as Gifts
At the end of a virtual event Sue Heilbronner and I co-facilitated this week, one of the attendees expressed what I heard as dissatisfaction with the call. I immediately went below the line. The person’s reaction sounded highly reactive to me. I heard her as jogging around the three roles on...
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Jul
11
Before Making New Year’s Resolutions, Explore Your Unconscious Commitments
It’s the dawn of a new year – heck, it’s the dawn of a new decade – so new year’s resolutions will be in full force.Yoga classes will get more crowded, there will be a line for treadmills at the gym, thrift shops and libraries will exhaust their supplies of...
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Jul
11
Awareness. Changes. Everything.
If you haven’t read Part 1: Choosing Unhappiness, we pick up right where we left off. In Part 1, I revealed how I had been committed to being unhappy because I had been believing I was actually happier that way. If that makes no sense to you, good. It shouldn’t. It turns...
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Jul
11
*A Heartbreaking Revelation* The Costs of Unconscious Listening
Until twenty minutes ago, I spent my whole life thinking that this thing → * ← was called an “Asterix.” Or maybe an “Astericks.” Either way, I thought the K sound came before the S sound, rather than what it actually is, an S and then K sound: Asterisk. My...
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Jul
11
A Four-minute, Foursquare Foray Into Focus and Alignment
This morning I got an “I’d love to pick your brain” email from a friend and member of my community. It was the second one from this person in six months. In Conscious Leadership, I talk often about full-body yes and no as a key element to conscious decision-making. But...
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Jun
30
When You Call Me Brave
Feedback can be just as much about what I hear as what you say...
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Jun
12
Take a Walk with Me and #changeourneighborhoods: 100% Responsibility
I realized that just seeing more people of color walking down these streets would be noticeable and salutary...
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Feb
13
Everything I Know About Company Culture I Learned at Summer Camp
If you can intentionally preserve core values for over 105 years, or even five years, you’re doing something incredibly special...
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