Dec
08
Loving Support Acts Without Invitation
Before diving into today’s post, I want to share that I decided to promote a new book by a friend and community colleague in this newsletter. He supported the launch of Never Ask for the Sale, and I wanted to return the favor. That said, he did NOT know that...
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Oct
30
It’s Time to Bench Lame Benchmarking
In my latest book, Never Ask for the Sale, I wrote about some ways of pricing that leave the seller in a poor position. I cast shade on billing by the hour and parsing a pricing proposal by its separate elements when the real value comes in the elements in...
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Oct
21
Shedding a Core Identity Really Sucks
In the last week alone, I have had multiple conversations with clients about “how” to shed a core personality pattern, something that has become a sticky, persistent identity. That’s all well and good, but then I found I was staring down this issue myself, and that led me to believe...
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Oct
17
Standup Men
I want to talk about a few special men that have appeared in my life in a few similar contexts recently. I want to appreciate them. I will do so knowing that not everyone is cisgender, not everyone who does amazing things for a partner is a man (women have...
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Oct
13
New Experiment: Never Ask Book Clubs
It’s one month since the launch of Never Ask for the Sale, and it has been a rewarding whirlwind. So much has happened. We hosted the first-ever “Break the Fast” Book Chat for my book and Brad Feld’s new book Give First. I spoke at Colorado Startup Week, a 30-person...
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Sep
30
Three Weeks Post Launch: Still (Mostly) Flying
It’s been three weeks since the official publication date of Never Ask for the Sale: Supercharge Your Business with the Power of Passionate Ambivalence (Hachette Balance). The most accurate way I can describe the week is that it felt like being shot out of a cannon. First, the week. Whoa....
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Sep
09
Launch Day: My 3,751st Reminder of My WHY
I did what I said I was going to do. And I'm releasing what comes next...
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Sep
04
Marketing My Book: If a Tree Falls in the Forest, Hear It
The things you can do to market a book seem to be limitless. Where was my limit?...
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Aug
28
Recording an Audiobook. One Hard Question and Many Cough Drops.
Once the book was in great shape, in galley form, and comprehensively copyedited and proofed (all covered in my last post), it was time to record the audiobook. When I decided to sell the book to Hachette Balance, it was very important to me that they have a plan to...
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Aug
22
Copyediting, Proofreading, and Reading Aloud FTW
My manuscript was submitted as of my last post, and then the publisher-driven processes around assembly, quality, and finesse began. My editor Renee Sedliar introduced me to the production team at the publishing house, and they shared a schedule with me to outline the different stages of refined production editing—copyediting...
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Aug
21
Why Responsive Feedback is a Fail
Some forms of responsive behavior are awesome: You scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours (especially if I receive last). You ask me a generous question, I answer fully and return the favor. We walk in my ‘hood this time, your ‘hood next time. Those feel good. There are countless others....
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Aug
13
From Draft to Submitted Manuscript – A Hard Slog With a Great Outcome
When we last met (see my last post here and a summary of my publishing path here), I had received an offer from an editor and publisher I wanted to take! At the time, my agent Michael and I thought all that remained was inking a perfunctory contract from the terms...
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